In December last year there were 5898 family violence incidents reported to police.

Children were present during 3876 of those incidents.

On Christmas Day alone, there were 172 reports of people being victimised by their loved ones. 

Family and Sexual Violence Unit Superintendent Rod Jouning said sadly for some people Christmas wasn't a time of celebration. 

"Traditionally at Christmas we spend more time with our families, which in some cases leads to manipulation, control, abuse and violence," Superintendent Jouning said. 

"I want to get the message out that if you feel you are at risk of being involved in a family violence incident, remember to take a break, walk away and seek some help. 

"Police not only provide safety for victims who make a report, they also refer them to support services so they get the assistance they need and deserve. 

"Remember this is an issue that affects women, men, children and every culture and group in our community. 

"It is important that we all understand this so we can look out for the signs. 

"If you see anything that indicates that there is a problem report it or seek help.

"There are many resources out there. 

"If someone close to you discloses that they are a victim of family violence believe them (and) encourage them to come to us or to a support service. 

"Let’s come together as a community this Christmas and commit to protecting our loved ones from the horrific crime of family violence."